Vanderbilt and the Yeggman. Vipers. Vigor, the Hammersmith wonder.

I am actually using Dreamweaver at the moment for this task, but it seems a bit overkill (and also has other annoyances which I won't bore you with here!) I'm not so fussed about having it automatically upload any changed files without me having to tell it to, as I don't use that very often, but it's the other thing you mention below of giving a helpful list of which files are newer at each end which I find valuable. See above for a bit of a clarification of needs..